Lifestyle: After the ‘sex’ what next?

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Most ladies get thrilled when they have men drooling over them. It makes them feel wanted/needed, special, valued and appreciated.

Some men go as far as doing the craziest things to gain the attention and affection of these ladies; from spending huge sums of money on them, purchasing luxurious gifts and shopping, fancy trips and all the crazy but beautiful things men go out of their ways to do for these ladies.

But have you ever wondered why men do
these things? What at all would make a man bring forced responsibilities upon himself? Don’t get me wrong, some do these things for genuine reasons (love) but others do not come in ready for love or even a relationship. Yeah I know most of you reading this feature are asking; is she saying it’s wrong for a man to spend on a lady? Is she asking men to stop making ladies feel good like exactly what they deserve? Did she say it’s too much for a man to take a lady he wants on luxurious vacations? Not at all.

Here’s what I’m driving at, I have witnessed a lot of relationships fail after all the luxurious spending and pampering. In the end; the ladies in question had to chase after these men for care and attention. Most of them are shunned and abused verbally in public and private. This is actually the major cause of depression in most women lately.

Let me tell you a story of a friend of mine who I know would not forgive me for this. Julia is a lady I befriended years ago; she was humble and content until she met Jaden. Julia had striking physical features; wide hips, huge butts, sizeable boobs and a pretty face to compliment her looks. Julia never seemed to be in need of anything until Jaden, aka Satan, made her realize what she’s been missing all these while.

Jaden made it obvious he was into Julia and wanted to do all it took to have her. From beautiful flowers to expensive ornaments and what haves. Jaden was simply all over Julia and after a few months of trying to win her over, he finally had her. Soon, a relationship started and one night while they one of their numerous vacations in Dubai, my friend decided to give Jaden her cake after several attempts by Jaden. According to Julia, Jaden went for more than four rounds and this act continued throughout their 3 week stay in Dubai.continue reading

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